ok, so my internet has been off for a few days now and it just came back and then went away again....so I am writing this on Wednesday, June 2 and will post it when I have internet again.
So, to catch up on the events, this is how it went down.
Monday, May 24th:
Alphabet Day!!!! So this is a Bulgarian Holiday to celebrate education, culture, teachers, students, and the alphabet!! Yay for Education! No School! On this day they threw a huge celebration for the town and the kids put together a number of songs, dances and skits that they presented to the community. Everyone in my host family was involved. It was great!
Tuesday, May 25th:
Primary Education Cluster (aka OMJ! I totally forgot that there were other Americans in this country!) We all got together gossiped about our host families, the food, the towns, the people, funny stories, not knowing the language, getting the word "beautiful" mixed up with the word for "cucumber" or in some cases "cheese," or and learned a lot about different teaching methods, games, activities, classroom management, etc. It was weird and wonderful to see some of my PC family.
Wednesday, May 26th:
I taught my first full lesson. It went really really well. I had to rearrange the lesson plan and drop some activities and add some others to meet the students needs but I felt good about it. I think I'm going to fully enjoy my time here teaching. No doubt.
I think it was also on this day that my family had a party for the almost 3 year old cousin, Dosi (cutest little boy who loved me). Dinner with both sides of the family, delicious food, hilarious conversation (I assumed-we laughed a lot, I didn't understand a thing but couldn't help but laughing, which may have made them laugh more), and two desserts! I ate a ton and my Baba took me around to everyone to explain that I didn't know Bulgarian but I could say certain things like "cynep" (super) and "dobpe" (good), so I tried to say these things as much as possible.
Thursday, May 27th:
Sleep in. Yes, please. The 7th grade is taking exams, so there was no school for the other grades. A little explanation: in 7th grade students take exams to be accepted into certain high schools, which could be a general high school or they can study a specific subject. We also got to have a wonderful trip to the Police Station in the city, so we could find out all the risks we face while being in our area. The most awkward part was when the police gave us a brochure of the mug shots of all the theives in our area and said, "Remember their faces." Upside, they let us into a jail cell and we got to take pictures! Successful field trip.
Friday, May 28th:
HUB 1-All PC family reunited!!! We got to see our whole group and go to the Big City (Vratsa)!! It was magnificent! I have said it before, but I absolutely love (almost) everyone in my Peace Corps group, (almost) all 87! We also went over a lot of material....like history and stuff (I took my notes in pictures, it was that interesting).
Saturday, May 29th:
So, funny story. Mary's (see right bar) host mom wanted to take us on a picnic on saturday, so we signed permission slips and let the Peace Crops know we were going five minutes away from our town for a few hours, thinking ok, a picnic should be fun. Well we showed up at her house at 9am, were served wonderful food and coffee, met a bunch of the family, and then headed out in two cars. We drove to the next town over, pulled over on what seemed to be the side of the road and got out. Then we walked where we met a lot of other people, kids, some high school students wearing Bulgaria red cross shirts, our school director, our resource teacher, and others. It was a really big group (35-50 people). We stood around and then started walking up this path that lead to a park where signs were up. We found out that the whole thing was not just a family picnic but a huge picnic to celebrate "Kid's Day!" (another Holiday which actually took place on June 1). Luckily we brought mitts, baseballs, a volleyball, a jump rope, a football, and some other games. We ended up just playing with the kids, drawing some great pictures, and having a really good time. It was not what we thought we'd be doing at all but had lots of fun!
Next thing: Soccer Game! Our town's team played another town's team, and both team's were not very good. It wasn't that they individually did not have the skills, it was that the team couldn't work together. But, the highlight was definitely going out to drinks after the game with the soccer team and the mayor (my host mom). Big Pimpin'.
Sunday, May 30th:
Pajama Day! I stayed in PJ's (which were my space needle shirt and track pants-which are actually really in fashion, so booyah!). I decided I would bake banana bread since my host family bought me a ton of bananas when they saw how much I liked them and I couldn't eat them all. Well, it went fine...until my host mom looked at the recipe and saw it said 350 degrees (in F), so turned the oven (in Celsius) up to it...my banana bread burnt. I was lucky that I smelled the banana bread burning, so I took it out of the oven 25 minutes early, but it was still burnt. I explained to my host mom that the oven was too hot, and she saw that I was disappointed, so she took the bread out (cooked in a bundt pan), and smothered it was powdered sugar and said it looked beautiful, promptly took a slice and told me it was delicious. This totally made up for the fact that I failed at baking my first thing in Bulgaria. It was even better when she made everyone else try it and had people telling me the rest of the day that it was delicious and they loved it! They asked me to make it again for them the following Sunday. I pray it doesn't burn...again.
Monday, May 31st:
BREAKDOWN! (#1) The PC warned us that we would have a breakdown sometime during our pre-service training, so we all have been joking about it and declared that we would yell "BREAKDOWN!" the moment it happened. Well, that might have happened on Monday. So each week our language trainer goes over everything we were supposed to accomplish the week prior, including marking our punctuality (which I have perpetually failed each week) and our respect toward the culture, our trainer, and our host family, which I was horrified to find that I had also failed. I am sarcastic and our whole group teases each other all the time, including our language trainer, but the week before, when we were with other groups, we were joking with her about a bunch of things. Needless to say, our trainer got really offended and we really hurt her. She misunderstood our teasing and got really really hurt. She told us all on monday and we broke down. We LOVE our language trainer and think she is wonderful, and without knowing it, we had shown her disrespect and really hurt her. We felt awful (and I still do) and all of us broke down (well I guess to be honest the three of us who had been joking around the most). The scary thing is that none of us had any idea that we had offended her at the time at all. It was the first time I became aware that I still don't know this culture as much as I feel I have integrated myself into it. I am now horrified that I will do something and offend someone else without knowing it. I need to learn as much about this culture asap.
Tuesday, June 1st:
Happy Children's Day!!! Guess what! I'm team teaching! On Monday we found out that we had to team-teach our lessons on Tuesday, so PC could observe all four of us as teachers on the same day. After perfectly planning out my lesson, I had to relent some of my power/control (some of the lesson) to someone else, which for those of you who know me well, this is not easy for me to do. However, I did it. The lesson went fine. It was fine and I team taught with a wonderful teacher (Thomas-he's kind've a big deal). Besides that, that night we had another community celebration for Children's Day and the next holiday (June 2). The kids performed many of the same dances and songs that they did for last week's holiday but with some new ones as well. My family pretty much ran it. My sister was the MC, my dad the technical and sound guy, my other sister in the parade, and my mom was the guest of honor who also presented awards. I felt like part of the in crowd.
Wednesday, June 2nd:
Another Holiday!!!! WooHoo!! Hristo Botev Day aka the Man who looks like the Guy from the Hang-Over Day! Actually Hristo was a pretty amazing person, an intellectual that lead revolutions...and was eventually killed for it. Plus, he was a stud. Today we also discovered that my host mom is terrified of the family pet (a hamster) when it is let loose. She runs and slams doors behind her, while the rest of the family laugh outrageously. the whole scene is spectacular to watch. I try not to laugh too much as I am still horrified that I will do something culturally insensitive.
Well, pray that I will be careful in what I say and do as the last thing I want to do is hurt someone or disrespect someone. Luckily, this time our language trainer got to talk to us and explain everything and forgave us, so we'll know for the future. Also, please pray that the Bulgarian meal that my group is cooking tomorrow will be stupendous! (or at least not burnt) Besides that, God has surrounded me with amazing people and I feel lucky to be in the situation I am. God is definitely carrying me in his arms, and I am relying on Him.